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barelyfittingin:

finnglas:

twentyonelizards:

bohoindie:

have a relationship thats mature enough to sit down and be like “ look this is our problem and this is how we’re gonna fix it..” SIMPLE

yessss

it’s also okay to not have the latter part? it’s okay to sit down and go ‘i am having X problem in our relationship and i’m not 100% sure what will make it better, but i’d like us to talk about it and work on it together’. you’re a team- you fight the problem, not each other

In fact, I would argue that it might be BEST to sit down and say, “This is a problem I have noticed in our relationship. Have you noticed it? Can we talk about it? Do you have any ideas of how to fix it?”

Soliciting your partner’s attention and opinion goes a LONG way toward making it a team effort, rather than just steamrolling them.

Please if you’re in a relationship save this post because this is exactly how everyone should go about relationships if we’re together we a team meaning we need to work together to get through the bullshit because neither of us can do it alone nor should you want to.

sappharah:

what your parents think will happen if they push you as a child: three degrees, ceo of multibillion dollar company, novel prize, president

what actually happens: crippling anxiety and depression